Yes, there is a wedding being planned. January 15, 2011, to be exact. Small and intimate, to be followed by a raucous party with some of our closest friends, and food from one of my favorite chefs. Invitations are going out very soon.
Here's the ring, up-close and personal.
Pretty, isn't it? Diamonds and sapphires - her birthstone. She's excited, and it's fun to watch her plan. Oh the plans!...way too many details for my tastes - even a small wedding. I can't imagine the details of a large event. I'd go crazy.
There you have it. Nothing glorious, just taking the next logical step.
..a random collection of thoughts, observations, contemplations, considerations, and other musings that fall out of my head...
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Did you....?
Did you feel the sting of dust, sand and mortar against your arm....
And the avalanche of brick pounding into the ground?
Did you see the remains of the young, charred and grotesque...
And the sorrowed strain in your colleague's eyes?
Did you hear the wail of a mother in the middle of the night...
As you cut her child from a tangled mass of steel?
Did you feel your skin start to burn...
As the room grew dark and hot in an instant around you?
Did you get threatened by a crowd on a stormy, rainy night...
As you gave up the shooter for dead, to save the girlfriend he shot?
Did you get cursed and threatened by a drunk...
As you kept his alcohol-diluted blood from spilling over the floor?
Did you hear the pleas of a wife of many years...
Asking you to "do everything you can" for her dying husband?
Did you feel your body tense when they asked "what took you so long"...
As you responded to the "leg pain" they've had for three days?
Did you ever feel guilty, going home to a normal house...
After leaving a community that had been reduced to sticks and splinters?
Did you smell and taste death in the salt air...
And told the doctors that help simply wasn't available?
And the avalanche of brick pounding into the ground?
Did you see the remains of the young, charred and grotesque...
And the sorrowed strain in your colleague's eyes?
Did you hear the wail of a mother in the middle of the night...
As you cut her child from a tangled mass of steel?
Did you feel your skin start to burn...
As the room grew dark and hot in an instant around you?
Did you get threatened by a crowd on a stormy, rainy night...
As you gave up the shooter for dead, to save the girlfriend he shot?
Did you get cursed and threatened by a drunk...
As you kept his alcohol-diluted blood from spilling over the floor?
Did you hear the pleas of a wife of many years...
Asking you to "do everything you can" for her dying husband?
Did you feel your body tense when they asked "what took you so long"...
As you responded to the "leg pain" they've had for three days?
Did you ever feel guilty, going home to a normal house...
After leaving a community that had been reduced to sticks and splinters?
Did you smell and taste death in the salt air...
And told the doctors that help simply wasn't available?
Friday, November 19, 2010
Over on the other blog...
I've started another blog with a good friend of mine. It's called DoNotResuscitateME and can be found at http://donotresuscitateme.blogspot.com. Yeah, original name, I know.
We've posted there sporadically, when the mood strikes. It was created as a venue for us to contemplate the idea of Do Not Resuscitate orders or living wills, when they're appropriate, and when they're really needed but not in place. We write from the perspective of experienced emergency medical providers in the field.
Feel free to go have a look around over there.
I'd not planned to blog about my other blog, but today changed that. I ran into the wife of one of my patients who, honestly, I didn't expect to live too long. She was excited to tell me how well he is doing, and how they expect to bring him home soon. Wow, just plain W.O.W. That doesn't happen often. Most of the time when we get a "save", the patient doesn't live much longer, maybe a few days. At the most, we've given the family a few hours or days to assemble and have one more time to visit their loved one. Usually, though, resuscitation attempts are futile. They're traumatic for the patient's body, and they're even more traumatic for the family to see being performed.
But this patient is in now in that super-rare group of folks who will live for a while yet. He either wasn't as far gone as we thought, or something in our bag of medical magic tricks worked just right for him. The breath of life in an aluminum cylinder and a latex bag.
We've posted there sporadically, when the mood strikes. It was created as a venue for us to contemplate the idea of Do Not Resuscitate orders or living wills, when they're appropriate, and when they're really needed but not in place. We write from the perspective of experienced emergency medical providers in the field.
Feel free to go have a look around over there.
I'd not planned to blog about my other blog, but today changed that. I ran into the wife of one of my patients who, honestly, I didn't expect to live too long. She was excited to tell me how well he is doing, and how they expect to bring him home soon. Wow, just plain W.O.W. That doesn't happen often. Most of the time when we get a "save", the patient doesn't live much longer, maybe a few days. At the most, we've given the family a few hours or days to assemble and have one more time to visit their loved one. Usually, though, resuscitation attempts are futile. They're traumatic for the patient's body, and they're even more traumatic for the family to see being performed.
But this patient is in now in that super-rare group of folks who will live for a while yet. He either wasn't as far gone as we thought, or something in our bag of medical magic tricks worked just right for him. The breath of life in an aluminum cylinder and a latex bag.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Disorganized....
It's been a mad, mad crazy weekend, and I'm taking a quick break to stick this little tickler out on the blog.
I'm going to be on the road this week, basically stuck in a remote location for training. Which means after the mind-numbingly long days, I'll be looking for something to take my attention away to normal things. So expect a major blog update this week. Lots of activities around to catch yall up on, but no time to do it right now. I've got to finish packing.
Oh, one other thought....sometimes in life you have to stop and appreciate the fact that God created carpenters, plumbers, and contractors. Just saying. Hhehehee.....love ya, Therapist.
I'm going to be on the road this week, basically stuck in a remote location for training. Which means after the mind-numbingly long days, I'll be looking for something to take my attention away to normal things. So expect a major blog update this week. Lots of activities around to catch yall up on, but no time to do it right now. I've got to finish packing.
Oh, one other thought....sometimes in life you have to stop and appreciate the fact that God created carpenters, plumbers, and contractors. Just saying. Hhehehee.....love ya, Therapist.
Sunday, September 5, 2010
Suspended Projects
If you've followed the blog for this year, you've likely kept up with my Project 365 and my weekly Love Dare commentaries. You will have also noticed that they haven't been updated in a while.
Project 365 just came to a grinding halt due to a lack of creativity. I wondered when I started it, if I would be able to find something new and unique each day to photograph. I made it for 228 days and simply ran out of stuff. Things quit catching my eye.
The Love Dare project is still running in the background, but I've suspended the online commentary for a while. I'll resume it sometime soon, maybe.
Nothing's wrong on my side of the blog screen. Life must take priority over the digital diary, and while I love this medium of communications, it will sometimes take a back seat for a while.
Stay tuned!
Project 365 just came to a grinding halt due to a lack of creativity. I wondered when I started it, if I would be able to find something new and unique each day to photograph. I made it for 228 days and simply ran out of stuff. Things quit catching my eye.
The Love Dare project is still running in the background, but I've suspended the online commentary for a while. I'll resume it sometime soon, maybe.
Nothing's wrong on my side of the blog screen. Life must take priority over the digital diary, and while I love this medium of communications, it will sometimes take a back seat for a while.
Stay tuned!
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Remembering.....
"A most powerful hurricane of unprecedented strength...rivaling the intensity of Hurricane Camille in 1969...human suffering incredible by human standards..." were the words of a forecaster in the Slidell, Louisiana, National Weather Service office some twenty hours before Hurricane Katrina made landfall, five years ago this morning.
Those words were clear: this storm was unparalleled in modern history. The emphatic statement was this forecaster's last attempt to accomplish what they try to do every hurricane season...warn those in harm's way. The people of the Gulf Coast were a storm-hardened people, many having survived the storm of a lifetime, Hurricane Camille. Camille was the reference point for all family, community, and state hurricane plans. Her thirty-six year and twelve-day reign was about to give way to another August feminine storm, Katrina. Much like Camille, Katrina started out innocently, and quickly exploded into a monster in the Gulf of Mexico. There were differences, though. Camille was tight and compact, causing her winds to be much higher - with an official high recorded at 190 miles per hour. Anecdotal evidence points to substantially higher winds of 230 to 250 miles per hour, but we will never know. Katrina was a much broader, slower moving storm, which allowed her time to gather the ocean up ahead of her path and push it onshore, as much as a half-mile inland and 30 feet deep in some areas. Katrina's massive breadth inflicted a continuous band of damage along 100 or more miles of the Mississippi, Louisiana, and Alabama coastlines. She maintained her strength on her northward march, downgrading to a tropical depression in north-central Tennessee.
Beneath those angry clouds were our friends, neighbors, and relatives. Places we enjoyed visiting as children along the Mississippi Gulf Coast...all were simply obliterated. "Hiroshima" one headline shouted. Another simply said "Our Tsunami", referring to a recent disaster in the Indian Ocean that killed hundreds of thousands. The printed word and the pictures could not tell the story. Every mile of Mississippi coastline, and about a half-mile or more inland was utterly and totally decimated.
We were bunkered down, a half-mile from the shoreline, in what we felt like was the safest place we could be, and still remain close to those we were sent to help. Scattered reports came of various fire stations and county emergency operations centers being flooded or damaged by winds, with staff forced to evacuate. These weren't simply reports over the radio, they were information about people we had known and worked with for years. Professional colleagues, and personal friends when we weren't working. Yet there was nothing we could do. Nothing, but wait. It was as if we were deaf and blind. We could sense what was going on around us, but without firm information, we were grasping for straws.
Occasionally the phones would work, relaying frantic calls from families who, with a Camille-survivor mentality, decided to ride the storm out. They called from their attics, their last place of refuge from the relentless storm surge. They pleaded with us to come get them, as they could feel their houses moving underneath them....then a dead silence when the line was broken. Anger and anguish were our companions as we pressed the phones closer to our ears, hoping for the connection to be restored........
Our first venture into the post-Katrina world was a surreal experience; it was as if Salvador Dali had been let loose on the Coast, this time with real objects in hand instead of his brush. Where were the people who had called, begging for life-saving? Why were boats, shipping containers, barges, casinos now occupying the lanes of the roadway? Tractor-trailers were wrapped around tree trunks, appearing as if they were a natural part of this unnatural landscape. Household debris now washed into an interstate, miles away from any body of water; where had this come from? Death's smell, and taste, hung thick as the late summer humidity, offending the senses.
As quickly as the winds settled, the people of the Coast pushed out of their homes to begin checking on their families and their neighbors. There was no waiting for someone to come along. A job had to be done, and done now.
Doctors, nurses, medics, firefighters, police officers, security guards, dispatchers, coroners, electrical workers, National Guardsmen, elected officials....we were all simply neighbors now. Katrina was an equal-opportunity offender, sparing not the rich nor the poor, the sick nor the well.
We wrestled for the first day, maybe two, to grant some semblance of order to our new world. Much like the story of Easter, on the third day saw a new hope, in the form of help. You ask, "why so long?" Consider, though, the entire southern half of Mississippi was devastated, and it took that time to literally cut and saw the way through to a clear lane of travel.
We met many counterparts from forty-six states, neighbors in the national neighborhood who came to our aid. While we've repaid our financial debt to those neighbors for their help, we will never be able to repay the debts of one-on-one support. Bumper stickers quickly appeared, conveying the Hospitality State's message of gratitude: "Thanks, Y'all!"
Five years later, we still see the scars left by Katrina. Families who lost loved ones will carry those scars as permanent reminders of nature's power. Our coast was transformed overnight, but with the resolve to come back bigger and better than before.
Two days after Katrina, I had a brief chat with an elected official in Hancock County, a person who I also consider a friend. We asked ourselves how long would it take for this area to fully recover? Would ten years be enough? Twenty? Thirty?
I think the truth is that there is no "full recovery" to be had. To recover means to rebuild and re-become what we once were. Certainly the area is rebuilding, but they're doing it with a new boldness and a new vision. It will take another generation to determine whether we recovered. It is up to us to get it right, for that next generation to enjoy. For to them, Katrina will only be a lesson, a story passed down, just as Camille's story was passed down to us. Will we repeat history?
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Something to contemplate....
Watch this. Watch it again. I apologize that it's a tad bit long, and it requires subtitles, but you need to see and know these things. I'll leave you to form your own opinion.
Monday, August 16, 2010
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Love Dare - Weeks 20 & 21
Sorry, I'm running a little late getting Weeks 20 & 21 published, but this will be the shortest one so far.
Basically, you need to get a copy of The Love Dare. You need to walk through it in the 40 days, or on a weekly basis like I've been doing.
I can't explain Weeks 20 & 21 here. They're all about your own personal experience with God. You and Him.
What I can explain is this: You can't LOVE without Him. He IS love, and without Him, you do not know true love.
Get the book. Read it. Live it.
Basically, you need to get a copy of The Love Dare. You need to walk through it in the 40 days, or on a weekly basis like I've been doing.
I can't explain Weeks 20 & 21 here. They're all about your own personal experience with God. You and Him.
What I can explain is this: You can't LOVE without Him. He IS love, and without Him, you do not know true love.
Get the book. Read it. Live it.
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Project 365/222
I ranted about this yesterday in another online forum...the inability of licensed, driving parents to read a properly posted NO PARKING sign in front of my house. During school hours, the street is deemed a one-way street. So that traffic may continue to flow properly, one side of the road is posted as "no parking". I guess people think that "only being a minute" only applies to them, individually. But when you multiply that over the 10-20 cars parked in the street...
If you lived on this street and needed the fire department, or an ambulance, they could not get to you!
If you lived on this street and needed the fire department, or an ambulance, they could not get to you!
Monday, August 9, 2010
Project 365/221
"If they do not now accept our terms, they may expect a rain of ruin from the air, the like of which has never been seen on this earth." ~ Harry S. Truman
Sixty-five years ago today the United States unleashed history's second nuclear attack, against the city of Nagasaki, Japan. The bomb, dubbed "Fat Man" detonated about 1800 feet above the city, with an energy equal to that of 21,000 tons of TNT, killing an estimated 39,000 people immediately, and injuring another 25,000 in the 7000 degree, 625 mile-per-hour winds that resulted.
The picture above was taken at the National Museum of Naval Aviation at the Pensacola Naval Air Station. It is a replica of Fat Man. Below is a close-up of the plaque shown on the bomb replica.
Sixty-five years ago today the United States unleashed history's second nuclear attack, against the city of Nagasaki, Japan. The bomb, dubbed "Fat Man" detonated about 1800 feet above the city, with an energy equal to that of 21,000 tons of TNT, killing an estimated 39,000 people immediately, and injuring another 25,000 in the 7000 degree, 625 mile-per-hour winds that resulted.
The picture above was taken at the National Museum of Naval Aviation at the Pensacola Naval Air Station. It is a replica of Fat Man. Below is a close-up of the plaque shown on the bomb replica.
Sunday, August 8, 2010
Project 365/220
I found this gorgeous leather desk pad this weekend at a scratch & dent sale just across the river in Arkansas, and got it for a song. It's got a few nicks and scrapes, and you can see some of the decorative trimmings are missing here and there, but that gives it character in my opinion. It looks great on my old typewriter desk that's been in the family since the mid 1900's, when my great-grandfather owned Lee Motor Company in North Carrollton. He died the year before I was born, but I ran across some of his old ties and fountain pens several years ago, and based their classic forms, I think he would have liked this desk pad too.
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Friday, August 6, 2010
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