Monday, August 31, 2009

An "un-cool" parent...

It seems that I have fallen from grace, and have reached the status of an "un-cool" parent, in as much as it involves my work.
Jay discovered a packet of our Healthy Habits/Healthy People handwashing brochures in my truck this weekend. He said, "so YOU'RE the one pushing all this handwashing junk we're having to do at school?!?!" He said there are handwashing posters and information practically everywhere at school, and the kids are almost fed up with the constant admonishments from their teachers to wash their hands.
I used to be the dad with the really cool job that no other dad in town has. Now I'm the bad guy that makes them wash their hands. Oh well….

Sunday, August 30, 2009

Scars...

Inside my right wrist, about two inches down from the joint there's a small white scar. Its been there for well over thirty years, probably closer to thirty-five...from a dog bite when I was a kid. "Dooney" the family cocker-spaniel who was normally a happy, friendly dog, apparently didn't like me reaching for the tag on his collar, and he nipped me. It's amazing that a memory so old can still be as vivid...I can still hear myself crying and can remember all the blood, because there's a vein right under the scar. It's not that I recall that event every day, but when I do see the scar, which has nearly faded, it does bring back memories.

This weekend is the fourth anniversary of Hurricane Katrina's assault on the Gulf Coast. Saturday morning I wrote to some friends these words: Time heals, memories fade, but hearts never forget...

This is probably the first year that I wasn't "down" for these days. Katrina drained a lot of us to the point of breaking. She decimated a land that we knew, and a way of life for thousands. Since that time, I've had the opportunity to deliver lectures on the emotional/psychological impact of major disasters for emergency responders. Each time I lectured, I wound up in a "funk" for several days after, all because of reliving those memories.

This year was different though, as the memories have started to fade, and time has started to heal. Along the way though, I pushed aside many close friends, and family. At the time, I didn't deal with the psychological traumas, and there are permanent scars to show from it. Time does heal though, but a scar remains.

Mark Twain said, "we should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it - and stop there; lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove-lid. She will never sit down on a hot stove-lid again - and that is well; but also she will never sit down on a cold one anymore."

What does that mean? I'm not worried about dogs. I learned my lesson about how to interact with them. I'm also now more keenly aware that I'm not able to "fix" problems for anyone, and I need to take care of myself some. I fight off minor "funks" from time to time now, and they're only occasionally more than a passing problem. But that doesn't mean I'm going to turn a blind eye and walk away from issues. The cat in Twain's quote learned not to sit on a hot stove-lid, but she never tried to sit on a cold one either; educated, but not wise.

Ok it's 11:30 at night and I'm starting to wander....but I just wanted to get some stuff out of my head.

Time heals, memories fade, but hearts never forget.....

Friday, August 28, 2009

Reflection Fail


And we wonder why people are so easily led by our "trustworthy" national leaders?

Friday, August 21, 2009

Swine Flu Update

Novel H1N1 Influenza A

Key Points


• So far, this Novel H1N1 Influenza is of similar severity to seasonal influenza. As with seasonal influenza, there have been hospitalizations and deaths, but most people ill with this virus have recovered.

• However, the groups at highest risk for complications from this influenza are different than those we have seen every year from seasonal influenza.

o Pregnant women are at high risk of complications and death.
o Others with high risk include children under age 5 and people with diabetes, heart disease, asthma, and kidney disease.
o Unlike seasonal influenza:
 Those older than age 64 appear to be LESS LIKELY to acquire Novel H1N1 Influenza.
 Children and young adults (under age 25) are at increased risk.

• The Federal Government is working with manufacturers to make vaccine against the Novel H1N1 Influenza. Some vaccine for high risk groups is anticipated in October, with vaccine for the rest of the population to follow. Priority groups for vaccination are:

o Pregnant women
o Household contacts and caregivers for children younger than 6 months of age (to protect these children, who are too young to be vaccinated)
o Healthcare and emergency medical service workers (to protect vulnerable patients)
o All people from 6 months through 24 years of age
o People aged 25 through 64 who have health conditions associated with higher risk of medical complications from influenza.
 These include those with diabetes, heart disease, chronic lung disease (asthma or COPD), kidney disease, cancer, blood disorders, liver disease, people with weakened immune systems (including immunosuppression caused by medications or by HIV), and neurologic/neuromuscular (brain or spinal cord) disease or injury (including multiple sclerosis and muscular dystrophy).

• In addition to vaccine against the Novel H1N1 Influenza, vaccination to protect from regular seasonal influenza is recommended for the following groups:

o all children aged 6 months--4 years (59 months)
o children who are receiving long-term aspirin therapy and therefore might be at risk for experiencing Reye syndrome after influenza virus infection
o women who will be pregnant during the influenza season
o people aged 50 years and older
o people who have chronic pulmonary (including asthma and COPD), cardiovascular (except hypertension), kidney, liver, blood, neurologic/neuromuscular, or metabolic disorders (including diabetes mellitus), immunosuppression (including immunosuppression caused by medications or by human immunodeficiency virus)
o residents of nursing homes and other long-term care facilities
o health-care personnel
o household contacts and caregivers of children under age 5 and adults age 50 and older, with particular emphasis on vaccinating contacts of children less than 6 months of age
o household contacts and caregivers of people with medical conditions that put them at higher risk for severe complications from influenza

• Antiviral medications are effective against most cases of Novel H1N1 Influenza.

o The priority use for influenza antiviral drugs is to treat people hospitalized for influenza and those with influenza who have a medical condition that increases their risk of severe complications.
o It is important that these antiviral drugs not be used unnecessarily, since improper use could lead to the virus becoming resistant to these medications. This would be a problem for all of us, including those who took the medications unnecessarily.

• Take these steps to protect your health:

o Cover your nose and mouth with a tissue when you cough or sneeze. Throw the tissue in the trash after you use it. If no tissue is available, cough or sneeze in your elbow.
o Wash your hands often with soap and warm water for 20 seconds, especially after you cough or sneeze. Alcohol-based hand cleaners are also effective.
o Avoid touching your eyes, nose or mouth. Germs spread this way.
o Try to avoid close contact with sick people.
o If you are sick with a flu-like illness, stay home until 24 hours after the fever is gone. This is to keep from infecting others and spreading the virus further.

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Thinking...

After Hurricane Katrina, while envolved in an animated discussion about the adequacy of disaster plans, I developed Jim's Three Rules of Plans. They are:

1. All plans are hedged bets. We're silently betting the disaster won't be as bad as it could be.

2. All plans are based on the last, worst disaster.

3. We can't plan for what we can't imagine.

But, today I find myself in a meeting for yet more planning. The Three Rules will be amended soon. Ugh!

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Monday, August 17, 2009

Wash your hands with soap and clean running water. Visit www.cdc.gov/h1n1 for more information.

Life's Storms

Today is the 40th Anniversary of the landfall of Hurricane Camille on the Mississippi Gulf Coast. The "benchmark" storm for nearly four decades was hailed as the standard by which Mississippi prepared itself for future storms. In twelve days, we will mark another anniversary for another storm that, very traumatically, reminded us that we never know what lies ahead for us. That was Katrina's lesson - not to be stuck in the past, because we can't see what may be coming next.

For these next few days, I'm planning to post a series of pictures that I have from Katrina, some of the thoughts I recorded during my time on the coast, and some of my thoughts now. The time since Katrina is only one-tenth that since Camille, but we're forgetting some of the things we saw.

While I don't hope that you "enjoy" this series, I do hope it will give you pause, to be thankful for the blessings we have enjoyed, and continue to enjoy...and a prayer for those life-lessons yet to be learned.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

A revisit...

I extracted this from an earlier post, The Masquerade. I was reading back through my blogs, and decided to re-post this segment.

Psalm 51

1 -3 Generous in love—God, give grace! Huge in mercy—wipe out my bad record. Scrub away my guilt, soak out my sins in your laundry. I know how bad I've been; my sins are staring me down.

4 -6 You're the One I've violated, and you've seen it all, seen the full extent of my evil. You have all the facts before you; whatever you decide about me is fair. I've been out of step with you for a long time, in the wrong since before I was born. What you're after is truth from the inside out. Enter me, then; conceive a new, true life.

7 -15 Soak me in your laundry and I'll come out clean, scrub me and I'll have a snow-white life. Tune me in to foot-tapping songs, set these once-broken bones to dancing. Don't look too close for blemishes, give me a clean bill of health. God, make a fresh start in me, shape a Genesis week from the chaos of my life. Don't throw me out with the trash, or fail to breathe holiness in me. Bring me back from gray exile, put a fresh wind in my sails! Give me a job teaching rebels our ways so the lost can find their way home. Commute my death sentence, God, my salvation God, and I'll sing anthems to your life-giving ways. Unbutton my lips, dear God; I'll let loose with your praise.

16 -17 Going through the motions doesn't please you, a flawless performance is nothing to you. I learned God-worship when my pride was shattered. Heart-shattered lives ready for love don't for a moment escape God's notice.

A Dichotomy...

Luke 6:31 (Amplified Bible)

31And as you would like and desire that men would do to you, do exactly so to them.

A curiosity: the dichotomy of the Golden Rule, "do unto others as you would have them do unto you".....

One the one hand, given the treatment I've received of late (gossip, meddling), does this Biblical exhortation grant me the right to return the favor to them?

Or, on the other hand, and more solemnly, is it an admonition for me to treat people with kindness and respect, regardless of what I receive?

Just thinking out loud...

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Free Health Advice...

No need to thank me... I'm just giving this to you as a public service, because you will be asking me in a month or two....